Round the Bend Views

Southside Community Church's dialogue around faith, life and community.

Church Membership? Why?

clock March 25, 2010 19:40 by author wesm

'Next week' appears to be a relative term it seems in my life at least at this point. I have not forgotten. Although it may have appeared I had forsaken the blog topic of 'church membership', I am back. Amidst the technical challenges as well as personal time challenges, I have returned.

So I suppose in the last blog I gave some basis both from the bible as well as our current cultural context as to why membership is important. I'd like to focus the attention to a more localized setting. And use three questions that are raised in a video that I will provide a link to at the end of the blog. The first question is "Can Southside Community Church impact the culture of Riverbend?". The second question is "Should Southside Community Church impact the culture of Riverbend?". The final question is "How should Southside Community Church impact the culture of Riverbend?".

If you watch the video on 'the church in culture' by Stanley you will rapidly be able to answer the first two questions. The third question requires much more thought, prayer and dialogue. This really is where the local church membership factor comes into play. You see membership requires a conscious choice to made. We need to ask 'Am I ready to stand in the fray with a local body and pray, work, dialogue and support the body as they seek to discover, and become what God has called them to be in their community?'. This is where the term "intentional community" moves from a descriptive phrase to a 'verb'. We by choice choose to discuss, pray, give, discover, work and support the work we believe God is leading us into in this community and in the world.

http://www.humyo.com/!#/9955259/roundthebendviews/

Questions I have for us as a faith community that ties to the video are...

1. Which affinity do you believe SCC is closest to grace or truth?

2. In what way(s) should we be preservers of culture in Riverbend?

3. In what way(s) should we be active in reflecting what God is like in this community?

Please answer any or all of these. You may have some ideas stirred up listening to the audio (mp3) Every Monday Matters.

I look forward to your thoughts and comments... wesm@southsidecommunitychurch.com

 

 

 



The Ability or Right To Read Another Person's Needs

clock March 6, 2010 09:00 by author Robs

I can hear it now, "How do you Mr. Stewart presume to begin to fathom who I am or know what my needs are? To that I say, "Your Bang-on Right". I shouldn't go around thinking I can diagnose other peoples' problems and prescribe remedies. I just meant it is hard to get to know someone well enough when they only pass you once a week at supersonic speed. And I apprepriate that it takes time and work to develop friendships. That may be the beauty of an old friendship; it took time and effect to build.

Speaking of old friends, a friend of mine from a way back phoned me the other night to talk. He told me he was sick and tired of living alone. My friend is quite disabled and because his social network is kind of small and thin, he's feeling starved for social interaction to the point going squirrely. He is unable to work and he goes to a United Church across town to do volunteer work collating the Church Newsletter but he does not attend Sunday services regularly as he has to rely on public transportation. He was grateful for my suggestion that he might want to consider attending a closer church and thereby strike up some new friendships that would help him cope. The point that stood out for me was that there are real needs right here where we live and a lot of the time we don't see them partly because they are hidden and sometimes because we close our eyes.

RobS



Generations Within the Church Radio Program

clock March 6, 2010 06:48 by author Robs

I'm a baby-boomer but I feel like a generation-xer, wounded and autistic, unable to really connect with very many different types of people. I feel this in a personal way but I also understand the way in which the breath-taking pace of life that technological change forces upon us, in the urban jungle we call our city, numbs us all to fully experiencing personal relationships.

This is distressing for me as I'm taught and believe that God chooses to be relational to humans above almost anything else He chooses to do. I'm willing to admit that sin is frequently the cause of these feelings of alienation from others, but still I often feel unsure, uneasy about what I should bring to any one relationship. As if I don't have the ability or right to read the other person's meaning or needs so that I might attempt to be a blessing to them - even in a small way.

There was a so-called "futurist" writer in the '80's by the name of Nesbitt who said that to balance out the relentless push of more complexity brought about by higher technological advancement we consiously had to engage others around us in low touch practices.  This meant more recreational and other types of activities aimed at meeting human needs and refreshing the human spirit that technology can rob from us.

Marshall McLuhan recommended that we all learn about computers so that we knew how to turn them off.

RobS



Why Church Membership?

clock March 6, 2010 02:43 by author wesm

Depending on who you are, that is, what influences have shaped you up to this point, you will view the idea of church membership through the lenses of those influences. Some of you might ask the question of 'Why should I become a member of a local church body?' and others you of might answer the question with a question of 'Why wouldn't you?'. Others might ask the question 'What is the point or purpose of church membership?'. The trends of values in our postmodern culture are moving away from 'loyalties' to organizations. About 10 years ago I noted at a Shriners Christmas benefit for children of disability, probably 90% of the Shriners were over 55. Many of those were well into or over the 60 age. The group which had largerly had little difficulty in attracting membership say 20 years earlier was in a serious decline in drawing younger members.

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I use this to illustrate the point some of the challenges of membership as it relates to the local church are due to cultural trends. Some people of faith see the whole idea of going through a church membership class as unspiritual and even carnal. This is due in part to the understanding that local church, the body of Christ is made up of people who have experienced re-birth by the Holy Spirit. This fact is true. Church membership though does not necessarily conflict with the work of the Holy Spirit in the local church. The life and walk of each Christian is to be in submission to the authority of God who is supreme over all. Peter when writing to persecuted churches who were struggling with their circumstances had these words of counsel to them... 13 Submit yourselves for the Lord’s sake to every authority instituted among men: whether to the king, as the supreme authority, 14 or to governors, who are sent by him to punish those who do wrong and to commend those who do right. (1 Pe 2:13-14) The authorities they were called to submit to were not particularly friendly to their faith and calling. So respect and submission, to systems of government for the 'Lord's sake' is a way to obey and honour God. It is part of our calling and walk and witness in following Christ.

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Peter's instruction gives the positive effect such behaviour results in he says...  15 For it is God’s will that by doing good you should silence the ignorant talk of foolish men. 16 Live as free men, but do not use your freedom as a cover-up for evil; live as servants of God. 17 Show proper respect to everyone: Love the brotherhood of believers, fear God, honor the king. (1 Pe 2:14-17)

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Clearly we live in a culture and age where much has been made of the inappropriate actions of a number of persons and groups this includes churches. Presently our government has provisions as to how religious charitable and not for profit groups should conduct their business. This framework is to ensure the safety and appropriate governance of such groups. Such rules have an interest in a broader sense of protecting citizens from harmful systems. If you have attended church meetings, annual, financial or even informational generally one observes rules of order at play so that members can contribute their views and hear the views of leaders before a vote is taken by the members as decisions are made. Such practices in fact are the evidence the church is seeking to respect both government required order and the instruction offered by Peter which we understand to be the instruction of Scripture.

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Not only is there a requirement to follow the rules of societal order, we find also that God has given spiritual gifts to persons in the church that should be excersised in leading the church as it seeks to glorify God... 

6 We have different gifts, according to the grace given us. If a man’s gift is prophesying, let him use it in proportion to his?b? faith. 7 If it is serving, let him serve; if it is teaching, let him teach; 8 if it is encouraging, let him encourage; if it is contributing to the needs of others, let him give generously; if it is leadership, let him govern diligently; if it is showing mercy, let him do it cheerfully. (Ro 12:5-8)

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Presently as a church we are navigating new waters. There has been change in pastoral leadership and even more recently a change in the make up of our board of elders. I have been in churches where it was hard to find leaders because the churches set parameters that require people in leadership to be members of the local church. Often this requirement is seen as unecessary by people who have been long time adherents and faithful supporters of the church in many ways over the years. However, earlier I stated that both people and organizations have made the press because they have failed to govern and lead well. Good governance practises and development is one of the ways where we can honour God and respect those who are in authority over us.

As a formal recognized legal religious charitible organization we are required to follow due processess and protocols to meet governing standards. We know the that our church is not a museum for perfect saints. No church is. Rules for discipline and order are necessary. Will there be failures? Yes! Will we be able to show that we have done our best to honour God and respect authorities who govern us? I would suggest this occurs when the follower of Christ chooses to identify with a local body of Christ and actively support the body through the stewardship of their spiritual gifts, the resourses of time, talents and finances.

The link below contains documents on membership and spiritual gifts. Why not begin to review them? A number you have asked about membership classes, generally its takes two meetings to reveiw material. Following this there is an interview with board members. Then persons are received into membership. Please email me if you are interested and possible times you would be able to meet.

http://www.humyo.com/9955259/scc/

I will have more to say on membership next week but tell me what are your thoughts?

wesm@southsidecommunitychurch.com

 

 



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Wes is pastor at Southside Community Church.

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